PhD in Theology
Doctoral study with specialist expertise in Spiritual Direction, underpinning decades of pastoral and community leadership.
Your mediator
Dr. Jamie Rheeder
A seasoned facilitator, cleric and certified spiritual advisor with more than 36 years of devoted practice -and an accredited family mediator who believes every household deserves a resolution process that honours its own journey.
Dr. Rheeder led communities in Heidelberg and Pietermaritzburg, delivering dedicated pastoral support, dispute management, conflict resolution and leadership while fostering local engagement. That grounding -decades of sitting with families at their most difficult moments -is what he brings to the mediation table.
Qualifications & accreditation
Trained, accredited and accountable
NABFAM accredited
Accredited by the National Accreditation Board for Family Mediators, and trained through the Mediation Academy.
Pro bono practice
Contributed pro bono mediation sessions at Soweto's Protea Court, alongside mentorship in Alternative Conflict Resolution.
How he works
Impartial, unhurried, and completely confidential
As a qualified expert, Dr. Rheeder upholds total impartiality -making sure every voice is heard and valued, and that neither party is talked over or pushed toward an outcome. His background equips him to manage the sensitive emotional and financial layers of separation with professional ethics and calm.
- Both languages. Sessions in English or Afrikaans, whichever you think in.
- Both formats. In person across Gauteng, or by video call anywhere in South Africa.
- Child-centred. Children are protected from the conflict, never drawn into it.
- Without prejudice. Nothing discussed in mediation can be used against you later.
Our work is rooted in genuine empathy and ethical standards, so that the end of a marriage is handled as thoughtfully and calmly as it can be.
Tools for your transition
Resources & support
Handpicked guidance covering each phase of the mediation journey. Ask us for any of these during your consultation and we will point you to the right material for your situation.
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Co-parenting handbook
An in-depth toolkit for establishing a balanced, transparent co-parenting arrangement.
02
Filing readiness review
The steps that verify all financial disclosure and asset schedules are complete before you file.
03
Personal resilience
Practical strategies for protecting your mental health during a legal separation.
04
Managing your finances
Help with reorganising your budget, accounts and assets after a divorce.
05
Protecting your children
Trusted associations and guidance focused on a child's best interests.
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Constructive dialogue
Techniques for civil, productive conversation with a former spouse or partner.
07
Understanding your rights
A concise breakdown of your obligations and legal standing in mediation.
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Peer connection
Online and local support networks of people going through the same transition.
Begin your journey to a balanced life
A free, confidential 15-minute call with Dr. Rheeder -to hear your situation and tell you honestly whether mediation is the right route for your family.
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